I’M ALIVE. It’s been two months
since my last post but I have somewhat good excuses. Like school, work, and
just being lazy.
Anyways with only 1 day left of
the year 2013 everyone’s all about creating their new years resolutions and
what not. Surprisingly I haven’t seen much activity on Facebook about it (thank
god) but we all know everyone secretly has their own whether or not they
actually talk about it publicly.
When I started I just swapped my
junk food for a healthier alternative and went from there. After about a month
I introduced exercise in the form of just jogging around my neighborhood. Now a
year later I know what to eat, what I like/don’t like to eat, and lift weights
with the meatheads in the gym. You learn a lot about yourself so don’t be
afraid to take it slow.
Don’t force yourself to do anything you don’t want to do. Simple as that. You don’t like asparagus? Then don’t eat it. I don’t, I
can’t stand the stuff. You don’t like running? That’s okay. There’s plenty of
other stuff out there you can try. If someone is telling you that you HAVE to
eat asparagus and run everyday in order to be healthy then punch them in the
face…okay not really but you get the point. There is not just one way to be
healthy and no one should tell you how to be your kind of healthy.
Treat yourself. I believe the biggest
mistake someone can make is cutting out everything they love to eat when they
“diet”. I did it and it just made me binge harder on my cheat meals. Now
instead of cheats I call them treats and I have them everyday. You like
chocolate? Then eat it. Just in moderation. I guarantee that if you treat
yourself you will stay on track easier and longer. I don’t care who you are,
eating carrot sticks and grilled chicken everyday is not fun. And trust me,
eating a bowl of ice cream isn’t going to make you gain 5 lbs overnight. It’s
all about finding a balance between eating more healthy foods along with treat
food that you love.
Find your thing. Find that one thing that motivates you. It could be that
dress that sits in your closet or maybe revenge for people who didn’t think you
could do it. Or you want to be able to run a 5k, a half marathon or what the
hell even a full marathon! The sky is the limit. If your trying to get
healthy/lose weight because someone told you needed to then your not doing it
for the right reasons. You are the best form of motivation. You decide whether
you get out of bed in the morning or what direction you go in life. So pick
something that drives you everyday.
Rid yourself of negativity. If you
have friends in your life that constantly put you down, or talk badly about you
behind your back, they shouldn’t be called your friends. This goes for family
too. I’m still learning to do this myself. I know it’s hard to let someone go,
especially if they’ve been a large part of your life, but if how they treat
themselves and others shouldn’t be a reflection onto you. Your friends and
family shouldn’t be a burden on your shoulders to carry. Worry about yourself
and be a little selfish.
Be selfish. This goes a little bit
with the previous one. In order to get yourself on track you have to let people
know that sometimes you have to come first. If you have plans to go the gym
after school but your friend wants you to go shopping it’s your choice what you
do. You could skip the gym and try again tomorrow but what if the same thing
happens? Just tell your friend that you’ll meet up with them after you go to
the gym. You have to make time for yourself in order to improve yourself.
Surround yourself with positive people. Same with #4 as well. Trust me, its A LOT easier to get healthy when
your friends and family are the same way. You have someone to talk to about it,
get advise from, and even work out together. You need positive people in your
life that believe that you can do it and will help you right next to you. Plan
hiking trips, go the Grand Canyon, take a walk, go camping, or even try
Crossfit together. It’s a learning experience that you can share with the
people you love.
Don’t stress. Life gets busy and sometimes no matter how hard you try you just can’t catch a break. Don’t stress if you cant make it to the gym or plan your meals, get some sleep and try again the next day.
Don’t stress. Life gets busy and sometimes no matter how hard you try you just can’t catch a break. Don’t stress if you cant make it to the gym or plan your meals, get some sleep and try again the next day.
Don’t ever ever give up. Plain and simple.